“A drink a day keeps the shrink away”
– Edward Abbey
Yesterday was Time To Change’s ‘Time To Talk’ day. A big part of the campaign was, and is, a scheme where people pledge to end mental health stigma- showing solidarity with sufferers and survivors. At this present moment 78751 people have made this pledge, in support of the Time To Change campaign, run by Mind and Rethink Mental Health.
Today, the 6th of February 2015 is the 7 monthiversary of my sober year to raise money for Mind- The Mental Health Charity. A perfect occasion on which to update anyone who’ll listen (or read) on my Sober Situation:
I’m still not drinking. I’m still going out and partying, just without alcohol. I didn’t get drunk on my birthday.
To date I have raised two hundred and twenty two pounds, fifty pence– putting me slightly ahead of my target of a pound a day. So thank you to everyone who has so kindly donated their hard earned money to support me in my efforts and Mind in it’s mission to help people suffering with their mental health.
In trying to make my blog and message accessible and not too hard to stomach I realise that perhaps I have seemed a little flippant regarding my sober campaign both within this blog, and while I’m going about my alcohol free life. I do not mean to disrespect or belittle in this flippancy, nor do I wish to seem insincere; as my seven complete sober months show, I am incredibly committed to this challenge, and to changing the way we view mental illness in a wider sense.
In the wake of the very successful Time To Talk day I feel that it’s important that we address potentially harmful glibness regarding problems of the mind. We live in a society where 63% of references to mental health in television are ‘pejorative, flippant or unsympathetic’, including such out-dated (and, let’s face it, fairly tragic) terms as ‘crackpot’, ‘basket case’ and ‘looney tunes’. This lack of respect is clearly problematic for those suffering from mental illness, increasing feelings of loneliness and supporting the painful thought that nobody understands. It’s also just rather silly.
We can’t help how our brains work, just as we can’t control the colour of our skin, or our physical health. Society as a whole is disgusted by racism. We would be horrified if a television show suggested a cancer patient was somehow inferior and to blame for their condition. It’s a shame that we’re so slow to disparage the thoughtless and irresponsible trivialisation of mental illness.
No single individual is responsible for society’s willingness to be off-hand; the popularity of ‘rape jokes’ shows that it isn’t a sign of cruelty towards the mentally unwell, and more a signifier of general illness of humour. However, every individual who chooses not to use cringeworthy phrases and jokes relating to sensitive topics, helps the situation slightly.